Human Becoming
Human Becoming is a weekly podcast that explores the ins and outs, the good, the bad and the ugly, of what it means to be(come) human. From tackling shame to embracing our anger, this podcast aims to bring you closer to yourself - to what experiences have shaped you and your story, and how you can embrace your own humanity. This podcast is hosted by Tumi Moloto, a human (and healer) becoming, a passionate historian and storyteller, a non-binary, queer African, and a lover of humanity. In their time here on earth, they hope to show humanity that there is another way forward, that moves us away from disconnection, capitalism and collective trauma, towards belonging, compassion, and collective healing. This podcast is the story of their rumbles with the complexity of their own humanity. As they take you along on the journey of their becoming, they hope that the stories shared will give you greater insight into yours.
Episodes
77 episodes
human becoming returns (?)
Human becoming returns (maybe?).This episode is a little hi! hello! how are you! before I return from my podcasting hiatus to get back to one of my favourite mediums.I talk about God and our large self, who human becoming is and...
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Season 7
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Episode 2
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37:16
how to use Human Becoming (an orienting guide)
Hello, dear human, and welcome to the Human Becoming podcast. It is so, so lovely to have you here.Human Becoming has been alive for 3 WHOLE YEARS. In that time, I’ve explored themes of shame, desire, sexuality, the shadow,...
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Season 7
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Episode 1
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30:39
why I want you to join the money magick coven
I love the money magick coven.And sometimes I struggle to capture just how brilliant, transformative and magickal this work has been for me and my clients. So I’ve made a podcast episode that is all about WHY I love the mon...
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Season 6
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Episode 15
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32:39
the somatics of break ups
We are wired for connection.We are attachment-oriented beings.What happens when our attachment relationships are disrupted or severed?This episode is all about the somatics of attachment: how our earliest attachment stra...
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Season 6
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Episode 14
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39:40
Whorishness is next to Godliness
Whorishness is one of my highest spiritual ideals (hail Babalon!)Today’s episode is all about my journey into whorishness, slutiness, sacred sexuality and God.If you’re a deeply spiritual being and a deeply sexual being (hint hi...
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Season 6
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Episode 13
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53:48
navigating desire and capacity in intimate partnerships
What’s the difference between desire and capacity when you’re dating someone new? (Or, when you’re just being a human in relationship with other humans!)In this episode we speak about the principles of capacity (what we are able to do) ...
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Season 6
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Episode 12
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35:50
a conspiring of magickal minds with Camille Bacon
In this episode, I have the delight of speaking to my dear friend, brilliant artist and fellow magician Camille Bacon. Camille describes herself as a heap of blood and bones and a hefty dose of star sprinkle, the glitter o...
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Season 6
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Episode 11
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1:01:44
why I am choosing celibacy
This episode is about my recent decision to explore celibacy, how I’ve been feeling poly burned-out, where I choose partners that probably should just be my coaching clients, and what I’ve been learning about myself as a relational being throug...
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Season 6
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Episode 11
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55:10
on celibacy, desiring my one true love and my happily ever after
In this episode, recorded at 1am, I speak about desire, my newfound commitment to celibacy, and how I am now devoted to remaining heart-open to finding my one true love and experiencing my happily ever after (yes, I believe in fairytale endings...
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Season 6
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Episode 10
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34:15
on good men with Tebogo Mabye
I’ve made it a practice to notice the presence of good men in my life - one of whom is my dear friend, Tebza.In this podcast episode, we speak about men and masculinity in South Africa, what it was like for Tebza to grow up in Hillbrow ...
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Season 6
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Episode 9
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59:40
Jesus, take the wheel
In this episode I am joined by my dear friend, fellow mystic, and co-camp counsellor of Jesus Camp, Dani Bobby! We talk about the the great gnostic truth hidden within everyday sayings like "Jesus, take the wheel", how we can begin...
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Season 6
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Episode 8
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39:41
how do we forgive our abusers?
how do we forgive our abusers?many of us have felt shamed, or moralised, into forgiveness. unfortunately, this idea that we “should” forgive others prevents us from knowing the deeply orgasmic, bubbling sensation of forgiveness arising ...
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Season 6
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Episode 7
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42:32
Jesus, bell hooks and Aleister Crowley walk into a bar
Jesus, bell hooks and Aleister Crowley walk into a bar. Jesus says: “love each other as I have loved you”Aleister Crowley says: “love is the law”And bell hooks says: “it’s all about love, baby!”All of these f...
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Season 6
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Episode 6
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43:15
resourcing in trust in times of apocalypse
We are in the apocalypse.It is not a far off destination, something that we have the luxury to put off thinking about/feeling into/engaging with.ANDWhat if apocalypse is not what we think it is - what if apocalypse is ge...
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Season 6
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Episode 5
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37:19
confessions of a love bomber
I am a love bomber. A narcissist. A gaslighter. A ghoster. A breadcrumber.In this episode, we discuss these overused terms and how they can be used to invoke the drama triangle (a model created by Stephen Karpman that needs a victim, pe...
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Season 6
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Episode 4
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51:40
I wish for a world where men can be free part one
In this two-part episode, I navigate the complex terrain that men find themselves walking in 2023. I talk about the ways that the patriarchy robs men of the opportunity to know themselves deeply and to be known, to embrace all side...
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Season 6
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Episode 2
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49:48
I wish for a world where men can be free part two
In this two-part episode, I navigate the complex terrain that men find themselves walking in 2023. I talk about the ways that the patriarchy robs men of the opportunity to know themselves deeply and to be known, to embrace all side...
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Season 6
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Episode 3
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50:12
can we love patriarchal men?
Can we love patriarchal men?Can we do the work of love - bell hooks style - with men who are unconsciously upholding the patriarchy?Once, I would have thought this question deserved an obvious “no”.But through loving pat...
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Season 6
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Episode 1
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23:25
human becoming has died, human becoming has risen, human becoming will cum again
What’s death to a bunch of immortal beings?Human becoming has died, human becoming has risen, human becoming will cum (many times, hopefully) again!All good death stories lead to resurrection.All good resurrection stories be...
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Season 6
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1:13
the last dance/an exquisite death/the end of human becoming
we have come to the end of the road.this is the last episode of human becoming.it is a snotty, teary, deeply emotional one. it is a poetic reflection on all the paths we have walked together, the terrain we have cov...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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38:48
the end of an era
welcome to the last episode of season four of human becoming. this episode is a kind of recap of the previous four seasons and the journey that we've gone on together. it is the last episode of 2022 (at least, it was r...
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Season 4
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Episode 21
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55:56
no more bandaid solutions: why we need nothing less than a (r)evolution of human consciousness
ever get tired of bandaid solutions? watching humans living under capitalism is like watching someone slowly get stabbed and putting little bandaids over the wounds. at a point you just want to scream: "HOW ABOUT WE STOP THIS GUY F...
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Season 4
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Episode 20
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1:01:02
a letter to my next lover
this episode is all about love. it is about readiness, and how I yearn for a love that is ready to meet me on the bridge (listen on if you want to understand what that means!). may this episode find you when you are ready to receive it.
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Season 4
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Episode 19
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37:16
honouring love's ending
Love's ending is painful. Whether it's a friendship, a romantic relationship, a familial tie - and whether love ends through a physical or spiritual/psychological/energetic death, it's fucking painful. We don't have a lot of ritual...
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Season 4
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Episode 18
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52:31
am I failure? and other questions I ask myself at night
This episode is all about feeling like a failure. I feel like a failure very often, despite how much or how little I judge myself as doing, and I've come to realize that this is just another annoying side effect of growing up under capitalism. ...
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Season 4
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Episode 17
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55:13