Human Becoming
Human Becoming is a weekly podcast that explores the ins and outs, the good, the bad and the ugly, of what it means to be(come) human. From tackling shame to embracing our anger, this podcast aims to bring you closer to yourself - to what experiences have shaped you and your story, and how you can embrace your own humanity. This podcast is hosted by Tumi Moloto, a human (and healer) becoming, a passionate historian and storyteller, a non-binary, queer African, and a lover of humanity. In their time here on earth, they hope to show humanity that there is another way forward, that moves us away from disconnection, capitalism and collective trauma, towards belonging, compassion, and collective healing. This podcast is the story of their rumbles with the complexity of their own humanity. As they take you along on the journey of their becoming, they hope that the stories shared will give you greater insight into yours.
Episodes
82 episodes
why I’ve dropped everything to pursue a ‘career’ in climate justice
title is self explanatory ✨
the spark doesn’t mean “they’re the one”
an episode on romantic recovery and how we learn to see the spark / the bubbly feelings we feel when we meet someone we project “the one”ness onto as what it is: karma.
checking in: where I’ve been, where I’m at, where I’m going
the title says it all.
hb microthought about autism and adhd
Hello! Welcome back to another microthought. This episode is about my recent audhd diagnosis, how that changed from my diagnosis of bipolar 5 years ago, my thoughts on late diagnosis and the appearance of autism + adhd in people socialised as w...
hb microthought contemplations amidst climate catastrophe
I’m starting a new segment of human becoming called hb micro thoughts. This will be for thoughts, stories and experiences that are small and sharp and want to be shared within 15 minutes or so.This micro thought is about the climate cri...
human becoming returns (?)
Human becoming returns (maybe?).This episode is a little hi! hello! how are you! before I return from my podcasting hiatus to get back to one of my favourite mediums.I talk about God and our large self, who human becoming is and...
how to use Human Becoming (an orienting guide)
Hello, dear human, and welcome to the Human Becoming podcast. It is so, so lovely to have you here.Human Becoming has been alive for 3 WHOLE YEARS. In that time, I’ve explored themes of shame, desire, sexuality, the shadow,...
why I want you to join the money magick coven
I love the money magick coven.And sometimes I struggle to capture just how brilliant, transformative and magickal this work has been for me and my clients. So I’ve made a podcast episode that is all about WHY I love the mon...
the somatics of break ups
We are wired for connection.We are attachment-oriented beings.What happens when our attachment relationships are disrupted or severed?This episode is all about the somatics of attachment: how our earliest attachment stra...
Whorishness is next to Godliness
Whorishness is one of my highest spiritual ideals (hail Babalon!)Today’s episode is all about my journey into whorishness, slutiness, sacred sexuality and God.If you’re a deeply spiritual being and a deeply sexual being (hint hi...
navigating desire and capacity in intimate partnerships
What’s the difference between desire and capacity when you’re dating someone new? (Or, when you’re just being a human in relationship with other humans!)In this episode we speak about the principles of capacity (what we are able to do) ...
a conspiring of magickal minds with Camille Bacon
In this episode, I have the delight of speaking to my dear friend, brilliant artist and fellow magician Camille Bacon. Camille describes herself as a heap of blood and bones and a hefty dose of star sprinkle, the glitter o...
why I am choosing celibacy
This episode is about my recent decision to explore celibacy, how I’ve been feeling poly burned-out, where I choose partners that probably should just be my coaching clients, and what I’ve been learning about myself as a relational being throug...
on celibacy, desiring my one true love and my happily ever after
In this episode, recorded at 1am, I speak about desire, my newfound commitment to celibacy, and how I am now devoted to remaining heart-open to finding my one true love and experiencing my happily ever after (yes, I believe in fairytale endings...
on good men with Tebogo Mabye
I’ve made it a practice to notice the presence of good men in my life - one of whom is my dear friend, Tebza.In this podcast episode, we speak about men and masculinity in South Africa, what it was like for Tebza to grow up in Hillbrow ...
Jesus, take the wheel
In this episode I am joined by my dear friend, fellow mystic, and co-camp counsellor of Jesus Camp, Dani Bobby! We talk about the the great gnostic truth hidden within everyday sayings like "Jesus, take the wheel", how we can begin...
how do we forgive our abusers?
how do we forgive our abusers?many of us have felt shamed, or moralised, into forgiveness. unfortunately, this idea that we “should” forgive others prevents us from knowing the deeply orgasmic, bubbling sensation of forgiveness arising ...
Jesus, bell hooks and Aleister Crowley walk into a bar
Jesus, bell hooks and Aleister Crowley walk into a bar. Jesus says: “love each other as I have loved you”Aleister Crowley says: “love is the law”And bell hooks says: “it’s all about love, baby!”All of these f...
resourcing in trust in times of apocalypse
We are in the apocalypse.It is not a far off destination, something that we have the luxury to put off thinking about/feeling into/engaging with.ANDWhat if apocalypse is not what we think it is - what if apocalypse is ge...
confessions of a love bomber
I am a love bomber. A narcissist. A gaslighter. A ghoster. A breadcrumber.In this episode, we discuss these overused terms and how they can be used to invoke the drama triangle (a model created by Stephen Karpman that needs a victim, pe...
I wish for a world where men can be free part one
In this two-part episode, I navigate the complex terrain that men find themselves walking in 2023. I talk about the ways that the patriarchy robs men of the opportunity to know themselves deeply and to be known, to embrace all side...
I wish for a world where men can be free part two
In this two-part episode, I navigate the complex terrain that men find themselves walking in 2023. I talk about the ways that the patriarchy robs men of the opportunity to know themselves deeply and to be known, to embrace all side...
can we love patriarchal men?
Can we love patriarchal men?Can we do the work of love - bell hooks style - with men who are unconsciously upholding the patriarchy?Once, I would have thought this question deserved an obvious “no”.But through loving pat...
human becoming has died, human becoming has risen, human becoming will cum again
What’s death to a bunch of immortal beings?Human becoming has died, human becoming has risen, human becoming will cum (many times, hopefully) again!All good death stories lead to resurrection.All good resurrection stories be...
the last dance/an exquisite death/the end of human becoming
we have come to the end of the road.this is the last episode of human becoming.it is a snotty, teary, deeply emotional one. it is a poetic reflection on all the paths we have walked together, the terrain we have cov...